As a mum, you’ve probably found yourself added to several WhatsApp groups, all promising to be your lifeline in the whirlwind of motherhood. At first, you think, “This is it! I’m about to get expert advice on everything from tantrums to teething to playdate drama.” But then, reality sets in – chaos, unsolicited advice and a surprising number of banana bread recipes.
So, check your phone (perhaps there are 45 unread notifications) and let’s dive into the hilarious, somewhat overwhelming and sometimes upside down world of mum WhatsApp groups. And while you’re at it, which type of mum do you identify with the most?
1. The ‘I’ll Just Drop This Here’ Mum
The ‘I’ll Just Drop This Here’ mum is the silent observer in the group. She rarely interacts, but when she does, her messages pack a punch. Whether it’s an insightful article, a life-changing parenting tip, or a meme that gets everyone laughing, this mum knows how to make an impact without saying much. Her mysterious aura leaves us wondering: Does she even sleep?
2. The ‘One-Track Mind’ Mum
The ‘One-Track Mind’ mum is on a mission. Whether she’s obsessed with potty training, organic snacks, or the latest school uniform policy, she’s diving deep into her topic of the day. Expect daily updates, but surprisingly, they often offer helpful tips that make you rethink everything you thought you knew. From snack recommendations to potty training hacks, this mum is the go-to expert in the group (whether everyone else agrees or not).
3. The ‘You Got This’ Mum
The ‘You Got This’ mum is the emotional support we didn’t know we needed. After a tough day of juggling school runs, tantrums and deadlines, she’s the one who sends uplifting messages that make you feel like you’re doing an amazing job. “Hey mamas, just wanted to remind you that you’re doing awesome, even on the toughest days.” Her endless positivity is the boost we all need. Just remember to check in on her too!
4. The ‘This Is Why We Need Mums Night Out’ Mum
The ‘This Is Why We Need Mums Night Out’ mum knows the importance of self-care. She’s the one suggesting regular nights off, away from the kids, to recharge and reconnect with fellow mums. Whether she’s starting a poll for a weekend get-together or recommending a new café for some quality “me-time,” she reminds us that life beyond motherhood exists – and it’s worth enjoying. Because mamas need play dates too!
5. The ‘Is It Wine O’Clock Yet?’ Mum
Let’s face it – sometimes, motherhood calls for a little humour. The ‘Is It Wine O’Clock Yet?’ mum knows how to lighten the mood. She’s always the one sharing memes like, “Is it too early for wine? Asking for a friend” or cracking jokes about the magic powers of coffee. Her ability to laugh through the chaos makes us all feel a little better about our own day-to-day struggles.
6. The ‘I’ve Been There’ Mum
The ‘I’ve Been There’ mum is the calming voice in the group. She’s seen it all, and her messages offer much-needed reassurance when you’re in the trenches of motherhood. Whether you’re up at 3 am with a teething baby or dealing with a string of tantrums, she’s there to remind you, “This too shall pass.” Her wisdom and experience provide comfort and perspective when you need it the most.
7. The ‘I Need a Minute’ Mum
The ‘I Need a Minute’ mum is the first to ask for help. Her messages are direct and to the point: “Anyone know a good babysitter? I need a break,” or “Can someone recommend a quiet café for a solo escape?” She knows when to ask for support and, frankly, we all admire her ability to prioritise herself. We all secretly cheer for her when she takes time for herself – because we’ve all been there.
Why We Keep Coming Back
Despite the chaos, the endless memes, unsolicited advice, and school reminders, we keep coming back to these WhatsApp groups. Why? Because they give us a sense of community we can’t get anywhere else. Whether you’re the ‘One-Track Mind’ mum or the ‘I Need a Minute’ mum, these groups remind us that we’re not alone. We’re all learning from each other and finding comfort in knowing that we’re not navigating motherhood on our own.
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Mum life is tough, but having a supportive community makes all the difference. Join the Eklektik Mama Community (and our very own WhatsApp group) for access to exclusive event updates, exclusive discounts and UAE mums who truly get it. We’re here to help you find the laughter in mamahood, meet new mum friends in Abu Dhabi and enjoy some well-deserved “me-time” along the way.
